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Life Script Questionnaire

Your Life Script: Understand Yourself on a Deeper Level

This isn’t just a set of questions—it’s a mirror with the cracks showing.
It reveals exactly how your past still scripts your present—and dares you to decide if you’ll keep living it.

Before You Begin

  • ⏱ About 10 minutes
  • ✍️ 26 reflection questions
  • 🪞 Discover the emotional patterns quietly shaping your life.

If you’re hungry for clarity—not comfort—begin below.

You don’t need to have it all figured out. But you do need to stop pretending you can’t see the fracture lines. This is your first step: look at it honestly, or don’t look at all.

I trust your courage more than your comfort. Break the script — lead yourself home.

Denise G. Lee

"I noticed feelings that came up that were not so positive—and uncomfortable to answer because I don’t know you."

– Questionnaire Respondent

This form will hit a nerve. That’s the point.

These questions dig deeper than most people ever dare. You’ll feel uncomfortable — maybe exposed. Good. That’s truth showing up without your old mask.

You don’t need perfect answers. You don’t need a polished story.
You do need to be honest — even if it’s messy, unsure, or, “I don’t know yet.”

Most people won’t go there. If you do — that’s where real change begins.

Discover Your Life Script

Take a moment before answering. Don’t explain it—just notice what’s true.

Emotional Regulation and Stress

1. If you felt anxious or sad, is it easy for you to improve your mood?
2. When you face a stressful situation, how do you typically respond?

Please do not include names, email addresses, phone numbers, or other identifying information.

Childhood and Family Experience

3. During most of your childhood, who was your primary caretaker(s)?

Please do not include names, email addresses, phone numbers, or other identifying information.

4. How easy was it to share your feelings with your mother or mother-figure?
5. During your childhood, how did your mother (or mother-figure) typically behave on most days?
6. As a child or adolescent, did you struggle with depression or anxiety lasting at least four (4) months or more?
7. In your childhood home, what did your family value most about you?

Please do not include names, email addresses, phone numbers, or other identifying information.

8. On balance, how would you describe your biological/adopted parents’ romantic relationship?
9. How easy was it to share your feelings with your father or father-figure?
10. During your childhood, how did your father (or father-figure) typically behave on most days?
11. During your childhood, did you feel as if you had to work to receive affection or attention from your parents?
12. Did your family support most of your ideas or ambitions as a child? Go with your first instinct—not your most reasonable answer.
13. As a child, did you believe one or both of your biological/adopted parents had a favorite sibling?

Please do not include names, email addresses, phone numbers, or other identifying information.

Relationships and Communication

15. How do you like to be touched by your romantic partner?
16. Is it easy or difficult for you to communicate your feelings with others? Go with your first instinct—not your most reasonable answer.
17. In spite of your flaws, do you believe you are lovable?
18. Today, the people in your world value your ability to:

Self-Trust, Identity, and Decision-Making

19. Do you have a difficult time committing to a decision in your personal or professional life? Go with your first instinct—not your most reasonable answer.
20. Do you prefer to be a leader or follower in a romantic or platonic relationship?
21. Do you tend to stay in unhealthy romantic relationships or jobs?
22. Are you comfortable with your skin, nails, body, and hair? Meaning, you might not be perfect, but you feel good about yourself overall.
23. You want to be appreciated by others most for your:
24. Are you comfortable looking at yourself in the mirror, naked?
25. Do you believe that the people in your life now are harmful or helpful to you?

Reflection

Please do not include names, email addresses, phone numbers, or other identifying information.

Submitting records your completion and result anonymously. No name or email address is required, and your information is retained only for a limited time.

"While it’s difficult to put my experiences in any one bucket… the quiz made me reflect. I’m not fully convinced looking back changes anything—but it did make me think."

– Questionnaire Respondent