The Identity Death That Comes Before the Breakthrough
There comes a point in any leader’s life when something has to die in order for something deeper to rise.Maybe it’s the dream that only existed to please others.Maybe it’s…
Read MoreThere comes a point in any leader’s life when something has to die in order for something deeper to rise.Maybe it’s the dream that only existed to please others.Maybe it’s…
Read MoreYou know what makes a lie believable? A sliver of truth wrapped inside it.I’ve been sold these ones my whole life — maybe you have too: “Real leaders hold it…
Read MoreYou’ve faced your shame.You’ve owned what you did—and what it cost.And now you’re standing at the threshold of something harder: rebuilding trust. Not just with the people you disappointed.But with…
Read More“If you can’t tell the difference between assertion and aggression, you’ll default to cowardice—or swing toward overcompensation.” My husband and I were talking about rationalizing behavior. We’re both grown, in…
Read MoreHave you ever read something that made you roll your eyes so hard you almost saw your own soul? The other day, I got a text that basically said:“This problem…
Read MoreLet’s get one thing straight: I didn’t write this for the Pinterest board crowd or the fake-it-till-you-make-it fluff addicts. If you’re looking for a confidence builder that doesn’t involve lying…
Read MoreYou don’t need to be in crisis for trauma to be steering your business.No meltdown required. No scandal needed. If you’re human — and you’ve lived through betrayal, neglect, addiction,…
Read MoreI remember the first time my life finally quieted down.No fires to put out. No inbox marked urgent.No one needing rescuing. It should’ve felt amazing.Instead, I felt… off. Restless. Even…
Read MoreYou say you’re introverted.You like quiet. You need space. You avoid the spotlight. But lately, even the simple stuff feels like suiting up for Everest:Returning a call. Making an ask….
Read MoreYou’re not broken. You’re wired for quick hits instead of deep roots — because social media trained you that way. I’ve spent years helping high-functioning leaders see the quiet patterns…
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