When Helping Everyone Leaves You Bitter (And How to Heal)
You gave everything.Your time. Your attention. Your emotional bandwidth.You were the go-to. The steady one. The one who always knew what to say.And then it hit you—inside and outside the
You gave everything.Your time. Your attention. Your emotional bandwidth.You were the go-to. The steady one. The one who always knew what to say.And then it hit you—inside and outside the
You haven’t caught them doing anything wrong. They’re charming. Charitable. Always have a smooth answer.They show up just enough to seem dependable—and disappear just enough to keep you off-balance. You
He shrugged and said, “Well, she was a drunk.”To other girlfriends, he’d laugh and say, “She was just a bit wild, wasn’t she?”And when pressed, he’d claim, “I was just
You drive a Porsche.You manage teams.You close deals that start with commas.You know how to command a room, hold a strategy call, soothe a client in meltdown. But this morning?You
Ever left a conversation feeling off—but couldn’t explain why? That wasn’t just awkward. It was likely manipulative communication in disguise. As a Healing and Leadership Coach, I’ve spent over a
This isn’t about Tom or Mary—it started long before them.Your team is bracing for the recap. Another blown-up weekend. Another situationship gone sideways. You walk in Monday morning with a
Growing up with childhood abuse leaves scars — but not all scars are visible. Some wounds don’t come from what was done to you, but from what was missing: the
When parents lean too heavily on their children for emotional support, something invisible but devastating happens: the child’s sense of self begins to fracture. You might have spent years chasing
Have you ever noticed how some people will do anything to stay in control—even if it means twisting the truth, rewriting history, or tearing others down? Take the Evil Queen
You’re hitting your goals.Revenue’s strong.Your team sees you as competent—even resilient.But if you’re honest, something’s off. You’re tired, not just physically—but emotionally spent in a way that sleep can’t fix.You’ve
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